Monday, May 25, 2009





















Well, I am finally done. Or, as the cake said, "Phinally Done." Graduation from 'Ph.D. school' was last Sunday, and with several family guests (Dan's parents as well as Mo and Ben and his kids) and beautiful weather, it made for a great weekend. It had been about 5 months since I defended, and it wasn't like I was doing a whole lot of Plant Biology in the meantime, but it was nice to have that 'closure' (that makes it sound like someone died or something...). In contrast to previous years, where my advisor had been known to book family vacations on his students' graduation day, he was in town, and we had a good time at the ceremony. We probably had too much fun making snide comments about peoples' caps being on backwards and overly analyzing the address given by ...someone, about ...something, which started out with a quiz asking us if we remembered what was said at our undergrad graduation, and following this up with the impression that what he had to say would be remembered by us for years to come. I don't remember the guy's name much less what his point was, although he did talk about land grants a lot. Lewis Smede, the author of "Sex for Christians" was the speaker at our Calvin graduation, but I can't say I remember a whole lot about that either, unfortunately. Anyway, aside from my advisor making comments about how it wasn't legal to have a student graduate if they were more than 6 inches taller than the advisor, and his overly enthusiastic turning of the corners as we processed in (he was mocking the University Marshall a few steps ahead of us--very mature...), we behaved ourselves relatively well. I had a stash of cough drops in my billowing sleeves to stave off a cough that sounded like a donkey braying. When Roger saw me take a few out as we were getting ready, he took his cue from me and stuffed his hanger and other stuff he had brought into his sleeve as well so he wouldn't have to leave them all behind and try to find them later. He cracks me up.
Anyway, that's about all there is to say about graduation. I must say I was hoping for some nice shots of Isaiah smiling with me in my cap and gown and hood, but unfortunately he was tired or hungry or cranky or probably all of the above when we got out of the ceremony and wanted nothing to do with picture-taking or smiling. We are hoping to get some more pictures in front of our house one of these days before I take the rentals back, but we'll see if that actually happens.

Aside from graduation and extra houseguests (who were all wonderful), life is somewhat back to normal for us now. 'Normal' being currently defined as one of us being sick at any given point in time. Dan and I have been playing tagteam with a cough the last month or so. He had it, then gave it to me, and I had it during graduation, then he picked it up after that, and now I have it again. We're a little puzzled as to why Isaiah hasn't gotten it at all yet, but are not complaining in the least. I'm hoping that two rounds of it per person will suffice. Isaiah, while lacking the cough symptoms, has been ever more vigorously walking around, running around, diving headfirst into sofas, bathroom walls, etc., so has an assortment of colorful bruises on his forehead. The one where he dove into the sofa was particularly gruesome. No blood, though, so we avoided an ER visit. He's getting a lot better at walking, but still has a little trouble when he has actual shoes on (when he's outside). Otherwise, he still eats half of my meals and is skinny as a rail, while I have half of my meals (duh) and am still working on keeping excess weight off. It's just not right.

We'll be taking our first plane trip to Michigan in a few weeks. By 'we', I mean Isaiah and I, and I am just slightly nervous about this, knowing his desire to move around and be active. We're considering it a 'test run' for our trip later in the summer when we go to Phoenix to see my grandparents and Mom, although honestly, the worth in a 'dry run' for a plane trip with a toddler is kind of like a 'dry run' for a tetanus shot--the former doesn't necessarily hurt any less, it may not teach you anything at all, and you still have to get the latter. Anyway, while we're gone, Dan will enjoy bachelorhood for a week and a half, and hopefully cram in some experiments so that he can progress soon to his dissertation-writing.

Here are some pictures from the last few weeks. Some are self-explanatory. Others are not, so you have my permission to make up your own photo captions for those.

Thursday, May 07, 2009

A few weeks ago we went to Sears with a coupon for a sitting-fee-free deal for $8.99, where they give you quite a few pictures (one shot). We went through the whole photo session, which didn't take long, since Isaiah was getting tired and cranky. In addition, he knocked his head on the chair in the studio so the last few shots have a nice red egg forming on his forehead (this actually appears in the one shot that I chose too--I like his 'natural' appearance). I had told the lady that I just wanted the one-shot deal for $8.99, thinking that even then, I could probably take better shots of him at home in the kitchen sink or out in the backyard. Still, I think it's part of their job that they make up these cool-looking sepia and black and white photo collages and try to reel you in and buy those for only an extra $25 dollars or whatever it is. I stood firm and just bought the one shot, because he's not that cute anyway (just kidding). Today Isaiah and I went to pick them up, and lo and behold, what emerged from the photo package was our one shot (several sizes, etc.) AND (wonder of all wonders) a nice sepia 11x13, a black and white 8x10, and yet another 5x7plus several wallet sized pictures--a $100 deal, but they were going to allow us to have them for only $25 more! Wow!! Yeah, I turned that down as well. Not that I didn't like the pictures--they were all very nice and cute and all, but the principle of it all kind of bugs me, especially since I had gone through the whole "no, I just want the deal that is on the coupon" shpiel with the other lady prior to this. I was tempted to tell her, "No, honestly, he's really not cute enough that I would want more pictures to splay on our wall." Next time...

Isaiah is in full walking mode, and likes to pace in our living room from one wall to the other. He's getting very good at walking by himself, and walked almost the whole length of the mall today, with frequent stops to satisfy his raccoon-tendencies (examining the gold plates on the mall floor). He had a blast yodeling all the way, since the mall echoes so nicely. He has adopted a "lodi lodi lodi lodi" cadence in the last few days and it cracks me up, so there was no way I was going to try to make him stop.

Yesterday we had a bit of a battle of wits at lunch. I had given Isaiah a banana to eat after he finished a large bowl of soup. I made the mistake of bringing out some bread after breaking off two decent-sized banana pieces for him. When he saw the bread, he was no longer interested in the bananas (primarily because I was eating the bread), and immediately started "to to to"ing (that means "more" or "eat" in Isaiah's version of Japanese...for now...the whole word would be "motto"). I told him he needed to eat some banana first, then I would give him some bread. I thought I was winning the battle and standing firm, especially when he finally shoved one of the banana pieces in his mouth. "Good job, Isaiah" I naively praised him as I broke off a piece of bread and put it on his tray. A nanosecond later, the banana slid out of his mouth (into his lap) and in went the bread. And would you know it, he tricked me again just 5 minutes later! Punk. I am determined to outsmart him one of these days. Perhaps this is why God willed me to get a Ph.D...how humbling is that?